Divorce or separation can be the best thing to happen to kids, when the process is sprinkled with love, kindness and compassion. Most of the time, parents need the support of an objective third party to help navigate communication hiccups, avoid landmine explosions and show their kids they are loved by both parents. Sometimes, divorcing or separating parents think they need counseling; though coaching may actually be what they are needing. How do you know what will be best